Drift Away

I need a trip to the river.  Or, as we call it here…The Rivah. If you draw straight lines connecting Richmond, Virginia Beach and Washington, DC, you will include three popular vacation areas for people from Richmond.  These areas are called The Lower Peninsula Middle, Peninsula and The Northern Neck.  This spits of land extend…

Solitude

I’m horrible about isolating myself.  I always have been.  The number of walls I have built over the course of my life is unreal.  Its a defense mechanism I learned as a child.  I’ve gotten better about letting those walls down as an adult, but when a situation triggers those feelings of neglect, abandonment or…

Get Away

I’m ready for a break.  I mean I am REALLY ready for a break. When I leave work on Tuesday, I will be starting vacation.  It will be my first vacation that is totally about me in about 5 years.  I’m not saying I haven’t taken time off work in the past 5 years.  I…

Self Care

I love this term…self care.  We were taught a great deal about self care during my master’s program.  I discussed the need for self care a great deal with my clients as a counseling intern.  Its a very important concept in life. Sadly, all too often, we forget about self care. I am one of…

Thank You, Sir.

There is a very fine line between pleasure and pain.  I’ve written about this before. Many years ago, I was heavily involved in the BDSM scene where I live.  It was an amazing time of learning and personal growth for me.  There was only one problem… I couldn’t be a part of the scene as…

I’ve Been Waiting

Guys…its never nice to leave a woman waiting. You never know what we will do when left to our own devices. 😉 See it on Flickr. What I’m Wearing Argrace – Akane ViSion – Liv Latex Dress & Harness [@ Kinky Event] Body Body – Maitreya – Lara Head – LeLutka – Korina Shape – Custom Skin – Glam Affair –…