Date Night

N492 Date Night Blog

A lot of people don’t realize that research has broken down displays of love into what is now called The Five Love Languages.  How we love someone else typically mimics the ways we want to receive love.  So like, for me, while I love presents as much as the next girl, receive gifts is not something I need to feel loved by my partner.  I will never question my partner loving me for not buying me gifts.

Physical touch and quality time are my two biggest love languages.  I love hugs, holding hands and cuddling.  I want to feel my partner next to me.  I also love having that great quality time with someone where we can truly connect emotionally.  Acts of service are up there too.  Acts of service would be like doing the dishes one night for me, offering to stop by the grocery store or those things that typically would fall into things that would make my life easier.

The last love language, words of affirmation, is nice but not something I have to hear in order to know I am loved.

The crazy thing is partners typically focusing on their own love languages instead of learning how their partner expresses love and trying to use the languages that speak most to there partner…that can lead to all of those, “S/he doesn’t care about me,” discussions with our friends.  Take the time to learn what your partner wants so you can show you love them and they will be able to hear you saying that.

Now, while I am pretty simple in what I need to hear my love languages, if I came home and found that my partner had done all of whats in this picture for me…yeah, they are going to be going to sleep so incredibly happy… 😉

See it on Flickr.


Credits
ACORN –  Indulge Me Set [@ The Arcade]
01. ACORN Indulge Me Press For Champagne
05. ACORN Indulge Me Hatboxes White
06. ACORN Indulge Me Candelabra Gold
08. ACORN Indulge Me Chocolate Truffles
11. ACORN Indulge Me Brut Gift box
12. ACORN Indulge Me Cocktail Cart
13. ACORN Indulge Me Piano Stool
14. ACORN Indulge Me Grand Piano RARE
15. ACORN Indulge Me Frame Cluster Gold
17. ACORN Indulge Me Chandelier RARE
18. ACORN Indulge Me Service Bell Gold
20. ACORN Indulge Me Tray Gold
22. ACORN Indulge Me Ice Bucket Gold
24. ACORN Indulge Me Caviar Server Gold
26. ACORN Indulge Me Champagne Coupe Glass

Apple Fall
Cosmos Flowers – Candystripe
Cosmos Flowers – Pink
Cosmos Flowers – Red
Roses Box – Pink
Roses Jug

DaD
“Sophia Pouf” single sit v.1.0 c/m

dust bunny
areca palm plant
fiddle leaf tree
pilea peper plant
pink medinilla plant
potted palm
potted rubber tree
spotted begonia

Dutchie
color change tulips
vase with 2 color change tulips

Elm
Grace Rug [White]

Fancy Decor
Bradley Rug

hive
built-in kitchen skybox

[Merak]
Bronze KeepSake Rose Petaled Frame [Gift from the 2018 Price Mother’s Day Challenge]
Flower Bouquet

Soy.
Potted Ponytail Palm [Ssize]
Wall art [Sea Echo]

Trompe Loeil
Amelia Loveseat Fabric White {A} V1.1

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