When I’m Bad, I’m Better

I’ve spent so much of my life worried about how others perceive me. Whether its been my family, what people thought of me when I didn’t graduate college on time, professionally, my gender identity issues…whatever it has been, I have spent so much time and energy worried about how others viewed me. It’s fucking exhausting….

All I Want For Christmas

If my family or any of my RL friends find my blog and figure out who I am…I am going to be a dead woman after this post… Let me begin by saying, I am not one who asks for things. If someone happens to give me a gift, I typically could care less what…

We Will Always Make Time For Coffee

Its ironic how we use, at least in the US, coffee and alcohol as an excuse to get together for conversation and to catch up.  But you know the best people in the world…they don’t really need either. The past nine days have had a lot of highs and lows.  I thought I was losing…

My Mother’s Child

I’m not going to bore anyone with another long post this evening.  Not that I don’t have things to talk about, but a lot of it is still in the processing it in my head stage right now. I was inspired by the memory of my mother to do this picture today.  I have a…