♥ Love, Me ♥

One of the things I know I struggle a great deal with in life is self love. Ummm…guys…that’s not what I meant.  Sheesh!  Heads…out…of…gutter…  Pay attention. I have always struggled to feel accepted and valued.  I have always struggled with believing I was good enough.  I have always struggled to believe I deserved love and…

You Don’t Want To Know

  I always find it interesting that people want to know how I arrived at my “decision” to transition.  They always ask it like it was some choice I made…something impulsive that I just pulled out of a hat one day without much thought.  I understand it can be difficult for people to understand that…

Soaked

I have a bad habit.  Well, I have multiple bad habits, but one that is really getting to me lately is the fact I never carry an umbrella… In the past, it was never a big deal.  Up until about 6 months ago, I never really cared.  Part of that was the fact I was…

Maya

Ok…I admit it.  I am getting frustrated with some of my real life girlfriends.  There are some of them who, I hate to say it, are making me want to scream and I have actually taken a step back from some of them as my frustration level continues to increase.  Maybe that sounds bitchy…but its…

Baby…Eyes Up Here

My teacher friends will love this.  Vocabulary lesson for the day… Congruence : agreement or harmony; compatibility. Dysphoria : a state of unease or generalized dissatisfaction with life. Congruence is a term you will hear me talk about a great deal as I write.  Its a term that is tossed around a great deal with anyone diagnosed…

Netflix And Chill

Netflix and chill.  This statement…I just have to laugh about it. So call me old fashioned, but “Netflix and chill” has always meant to kick back and watch a movie with someone who’s company you enjoy, whether it be friend or partner, for me at least.  That is what I always thought until a friend…